I’m glad I’m not the kind who would get big headed whenever someone compliments me. There were a few times when I was so touched by those compliments and I start believing them. And it made me proud. It feels like I’m higher than where I usually thought I am. You may laugh but it really made me feel like I’m shining. I thought I was just average. Sometimes I feel like I wanna be a lot better than what I am now. Okay, currently, on physical appearances. But then, I was afraid of one thing. Have always afraid of that. I was afraid if I would start believing those compliments and change. Being big headed. And probably thinking I’m more than good looking. More than what other people compliment. I’m afraid of that. I don’t want that feeling. Now, I’m sticking to where I should be. Not high and not low. I don’t have to stand out by depending solely on my appearance.
I believe in charming which would lead attractiveness to your character. When your inner self is beautiful, sooner or later, you will start to bloom. And you’ll be a lot prettier than those who were already born pretty. Inside-out, you’re beautiful. Just stay grounded. Sometimes when you keep telling yourself that you’re ‘beautiful’ to overcome your low self-esteem, it just makes you worse. You might just end up believing it too much, resulting in you thinking that you’re really BEAUTIFUL when you’re frankly not. No offence, but, that’s life. That’s just a true fact. Something that you’ve to suck it in, accept it and move on. Because if you don’t, you’ll just continue leading a sad life, in denial. And that’s just sad.
Basically, don’t get big headed whenever people compliment you and don’t lie to yourself that you’re beautiful and suck that in too much into your head.
